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New Pathways to Power | Sharon Ellison | TEDxDavidsonAcademy
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Added Jul 14, 2016
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What if a single idea has caused most of the pain and violence in the world? “Power Corrupts” may rank among the most frequently repeated phrases in history. Hidden within is an assumption that has fostered a common belief, held for centuries. This belief fuels pandemic power struggle. Once illuminated, it offers us a different understanding of power. Changes in four small, but crucial, elements can deeply impact the way we talk to each other, enabling us to take the "war out of our words.” Current scientific research, including the study of epigenetics, lends substantial support to the idea that we can change—as individuals and as a society—much faster than we ever imagined. Specific skills and stories clarify how we can defuse defensiveness even in high conflict situations, often instantly, empowering us to heal old hurts, to gain confidence and competence, and to strengthen our relationships—one sentence at a time.

Sharon Strand Ellison is an award-winning speaker, creator of the Powerful Non-Defensive Communication™ process and author of Taking the War Out of Our Words. Sharon & her daughter, Ami Atkinson Combs co-authored the audio book, Taking Power Struggle Out of Parenting, winner of the Benjamin Franklin Award. Sharon was a nominee for the Leadership for a Changing World Award, sponsored by the Ford Foundation and the Advocacy Institute. As keynote speaker for the 11th annual Kaplan Lecture, she was given an honorary award as a pioneer in the field of communication. Sharon provides keynotes and training programs for people in more than a dozen professions as well as for the public. Her clients include Hewlett Packard; Lockeed Martin; Kaiser Permanente; the Women’s Global Health Imperative; Stanford University, the Association for Multicultural Education, the Smithsonian, The Canadian Bar Association and the Centre for Dispute Resolution in London, England.

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